Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Anger



Those who spend [in Allâh's Cause - deeds of charity, alms, etc.] in prosperity and in adversity, who repress anger, and who pardon men; verily, Allâh loves Al-Muhsinûn (the good­doers).
[Al-'Imran 3:134 ]
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Narrated Abu Huraira, r.a.
Allah's Apostle(May devine peace be upon him) said, "The strong is not the one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong is the one who controls himself while in anger."
[Hadith - Sahih Al-Bukhari]
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Narrated Abu Huraira, r.a.
A man said to the Prophet(May peace and blessing of Allah be upon him) , "Advise me!" The Prophet said, "Do not become angry and furious." The man asked (the same) again and again, and the Prophet said in each case, "Do not become angry and furious."
[Hadith - Sahih Al-Bukhari]
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WHAT TO DO WHEN ANGRY
Narrated Sulaiman bin Sarad, r.a.
Two men abused each other in front of the Prophet while we were sitting with him. One of the two abused his companion furiously and his face became red. The Prophet said, "I know a word (sentence) the saying of which will cause him to relax if this man says it. Only if he said, 'I seek refuge with Allah from Satan, the outcast.' " So they said to that (furious) man, "Don't you hear what the Prophet is saying?" He said, "I am not mad."
[Hadith - Sahih Bukhari]
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Narrated Atiyyah as-Sa'di, r.a.
AbuWa'il al-Qass said: We entered upon Urwah ibn Muhammad ibn as-Sa'di. A man spoke to him and made him angry. So he stood and performed ablution; he then returned and performed ablution, and said: My father told me on the authority of my grandfather Atiyyah who reported the Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) as saying: Anger comes from the devil, the devil was created of fire, and fire is extinguished only with water; so when one of you becomes angry, he should perform ablution.
[Hadith - Sunan of Abu Dawood]
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Narrated Abu Dharr, r.a.
The Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) said to us:
When one of you becomes angry while standing, he should sit down. If the anger leaves him, well and good; otherwise he should lie down.
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So,I know lah it's hard to tahan(restrain) yourself when you're getting angry.
But try to be patience,verily when people do the most worst thing towards the prophet (may devine peace be upon),what did he usually do? Get idioticly mad and curse that person?
no right,he didn't get mad but instead he'll be kind and do good stuff toward that person.
Slowly,lets try fight this damn anger of ours which came from the idiotic devil by restraining ourselves from getting mad.
Or do you WANT to follow the devil?
Well,it's up to you guys lah,not my problem .
BUT i will pray for you IF you want to fight it.
Insha-Allah you guys can over come the anger.
*amiin*
until now,
Salam wa Rahmatullah wa Barakatuh Alaik.

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